Just how do women get their voices heard in a testosterone fuelled world? There is plenty of research to show that somehow women’s ideas tend not to get taken seriously until made by a man, or that women do not get due credit for their contributions. None of us want to start behaving like men and not being true to ourselves so how can we be heard?
Well, I’ve written quite a few posts on this topic and even written a course (Speak Up) but there’s always something new to learn. I recently read a fascinating article about how women at the White House solved this problem. In brief, they endorsed and supported each other until the men took notice. They changed the culture. Here’s an extract:
Female staffers adopted a meeting strategy they called “amplification”: When a woman made a key point, other women would repeat it, giving credit to its author. This forced the men in the room to recognize the contribution — and denied them the chance to claim the idea as their own.
“We just started doing it, and made a purpose of doing it. It was an everyday thing,” said one former Obama aide who requested anonymity to speak frankly. Obama noticed, she and others said, and began calling more often on women and junior aides.
The article, by Clare Lansbaum, points out things have got much better for female staffers in Obama’s second term. There’s an even gender split among his top aides, and half of all White House departments are headed by women.
“I think having a critical mass makes a difference,” White House senior adviser Valerie Jarrett said. “It’s fair to say that there was a lot of testosterone flowing in those early days. Now we have a little more estrogen that provides a counterbalance.”
Hear, hear to that! Women supporting each other! Try it out and see what happens.
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Posted on September 21st, 2016 by Jane